Here’s the Short Version of the story:
Yes, we’re leaving Vancouver. Mark and I have sold our fantastic, lovingly custom designed, dream apartment. We’re going to load up a truck and then take a very long road trip with Molly & Lexy, seeing a few sites and visiting with family and friends along the way. We don’t know when we’re leaving exactly yet, but I’m sure our moving date will come sooner than we think.
If you’re wondering why and how all this came about, then here’s the Long Version of the story:
It all started when Mark began having some trouble with his feet.
It all started when we wanted to move into a bigger place.
It all started when we went back to Newfoundland last year.
It all started when Mark turned to me and said, “How about we take our lives on an adventure and move to Ontario?â€
My wonderful, talented husband has been having a painful time, he has a pretty bad case of plantar fasciitis. He’s seen lots of doctors, followed through on lots of advice and has been able to manage the pain but he’s been living it with now for about two years. He’s the Caretaker for the building we live in, it’s a pretty active job. It’s now come to the point when more than one of his doctors has strongly suggested he find a new career.
But what?
While suffering with this problem, life for Mark and I carried on but with a lot less activity. We haven’t gone hiking for a long, long time. Mark doesn’t usually walk the Girls with me, we’ve been to Stanley Park only a hand full of times the last couple of years. Really, we’re not enjoying so many of the things we love about Vancouver.
So why are we here?
We have a stunning apartment. We are living The Vancouver Life. We own a loft Downtown. We have views of the mountains, Stanley Park & Burrard Inlet. Mark is a talented carpenter and designer and together we have created a fantastic place to live. It’s absolutely beautiful and could be found in the pages of Dwell, but it’s only around 800 square feet.
Wouldn’t it be nice to have a bedroom with a door on it? Or a second bathroom?
The last two summers have been a little tough, I’ve had to say good bye to two very dear, wonderful people I love so much, both of them in Newfoundland. Each time I went back it took a day and half to get to my family. This country is so big, the flights are limited (and crazy expensive) and the four and a half time zones really suck. This is the drawback to living on the west coast. I am so very far away from my family. And as I get older it feels like the distance widens.
Time is precious.
When we first started talking about moving to Ontario Uncle Bill was part of our plans. I told him I’d be able to come visit him more often, he said it was a great idea.
Tell me again, why do I live so far away from my family?
Health problems, career contemplations, space issues, a really expensive housing market, home sickness, all of these things were brewing and then suddenly Mark said, “How about we take our lives on an adventure and move to Ontario?â€
I said, “Yes!†without hesitation and spent the rest of the night crying tears of joy. Don’t get me wrong, I love Vancouver—we both do. We just realized that we are not living the lives we want to live here, not completely. It’s time for a change.
When we made the decision to move we were in the middle of renovating our kitchen. We’ve been madly working to finish it off to sell the place and I’ve fallen a bit behind on making pottery but I’m now getting back into my throwing routine. I’ll have a special item for the Thanksgiving One Of A Kind Online Pop Up Shop at the end of September. I’m only making 25 and they’ll be available for just a limited time online. The shop opens September 27th and I’m really happy with how these little numbers are turning out.
In the next few weeks while we get ready to leave this wonderful, wonderful place I’ll be making pottery but I won’t be able to take on any more workshops or private lessons. (If you’re one of the people on my wait list watch for an email from me in the next few days.)
I’ve re-opened my BigCartel shop, but I’m going to leave my Etsy shop on hold for the time being, I just need to simplify a few things for the next few weeks.
I’ll also be coming back to Vancouver in December for the One Of A Kind Show & Sale, so it won’t be long before I get to come back to this city I absolutely LOVE.
This has been a very bittersweet time for us but Mark and I are both really excited for what’s ahead.
Awwww, Melanie! I know we don’t see each other often, but I am still sad to hear you are leaving! I know you’ll be happy being closer to your family though, so that is important. I really hope that things go well for you with this transition, and give my best to Mark – I know that any kind of chronic health issues can really be a big challenge even when they are invisible on the outside. If there’s any chance to catch up before you go, let me know – I just came down with a post travel cold, but otherwise once I’m better, have a long travel-free stretch on the go now. xo
this is exciting news 🙂 I’m excited for your new adventure!!
I am so so so excited for you guys. There aren’t too many moments in life when you make a decision like that, but we’ve been there – happy tears and all. When you know, you know.
Can’t wait to hear about all the adventure ahead! You will both be so very missed!
Thanks you guys!
Ariane – it would be great to see you before we go, let’s make a plan.
Thank you LittleRedDoor 🙂
Miranda – I’m really, really looking forward to seeing you at OOAK in December!
Can’t wait to see you guys!! Good luck with the cross country trek 🙂 xo
Vancouver’s loss is our GAIN we cannot wait for you all to arrive!! No more 5 hour flights to see two of my most favorite people in the world and our two favorite furry friends.
We also love Vancouver and have enjoyed our trips there its a beautiful city.
Love Mom xoxooxo
Now I know the story so you don’t have to tell me as a response to me asking in the email!
I know the pain of plantar fasciitis well, and feel terribly for Mark.
Best of luck with your move — I am so happy you’ve made the decision, found relief and peace, and are setting off on a new adventure! It’s very exciting and inspirational…though it’s so hard to think of the Edge without you all. Well, we’re not there either so you four get on going, then!
Tamara